He can’t really decide right now. On the one hand, he wants to have more contact with you.
On the other hand, he doesn’t want to cut back on his previous lifestyle and invest time in a partnership. His back and forth is not up to you.
When he approaches you, make it clear that he should finally decide whether it is a sincere affair or just a game between you.
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