He can imagine a more intense relationship with you, but only on his terms. His male ego prevents him from making compromises in a partnership.
On the other hand, he knows exactly what he wants and sets priorities accordingly.
Be aware that you cannot change his character from the ground up, but there is a chance to make it clear from the beginning that you insist on a relationship at eye level.
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